Should I Invite Alex to the Dance

Should I invite Alex to the dance?

I’ve been thinking about it more than I probably should 😅

Ever since the coffee date, he’s kind of just stayed in my head. Not in an overwhelming way, just enough that I keep replaying parts of it. The way it felt easy. The way I didn’t feel like I had to try so hard.

And now there’s this dance coming up.

Normally I wouldn’t even consider asking someone. I’d either go by myself or find a reason not to go at all. That’s usually how it goes.

But this feels different.

I keep wondering what it would be like if he was there. If we showed up together. If it would feel just as easy as sitting across from each other in that coffee shop.

Then my brain immediately goes the other direction.

What if it’s awkward? What if it’s too much? What if I’m overthinking something that was just one good moment?

Also… he has staff.

And I don’t really know what that looks like in a setting like that. Would they come? Stay nearby? Would it change the whole feel of it?

I don’t even know if that matters, or if I’m just trying to find reasons to overanalyze everything.

Because the simple version is this:

I liked spending time with him.

And I think I’d like to again.

It’s just that asking feels like a bigger step than I’m used to taking.

But also… nothing happens if I don’t.

So now I’m stuck somewhere between “just ask him” and “what if I make it weird?”

I don’t know yet.

But I’m definitely thinking about it.